We talked about doing fun shit, because that exposes to other people who might like the shit that we’re into, while also giving us more dimensionality outside of our work.Īnd we talked about working on our shit, emotionally. We talked about getting our shit together, whether that’s with our education or work trajectory. Things that focus on enriching your life, so you can attract the person who’s the best fit for you.
We covered the first three in the previous video, those focused on personal things you can look at to improve your dating success. And to help you on that journey, I’ve come up with 6 foundations you need to assess in your dating and relationship journey. We can’t make it not horrible, but we can make less horrible, maybe even not bad. In my last video, we started talking about how dating in New York City is a horrible post-apocalyptic hellscape that slowly but surely eats away at your soul.
This is part 2 of my brief video series, lovingly entitled Dating in New York City is Shit: 6 Fundamentals of Dating